what most men do not know about women

If you will be asked how you will define man, what will your definition be?

As Wikipedia defines, the term man (pl. men) is used for an adult human male (the term boy is the usual term for a human male child or adolescent). I put a check on this one.

However, man is sometimes used to refer to humanity as a whole. A question just popped out of my head, "Why man?" "Why do priest had been choosen to lead a church? Were men outnumbered women, hence they won the position?"

According to whoever s/he was, men is God's gift to women. Well this havent gotten into me.... yet

Many definitions will popped out of your head surely. Women defining them as a good one or as a bad one depending on how they've been hurt or how they've been loved so dearly.

Well all I can say is this, everything matters. Others just don't believe it and I don't know if I could say, unlucky, I am not one of them. This isn't a definition of what a man is but then I'll let you try to figure out how will I define it my own.

Most men say that they know everything about women. Oh come on! I am not gonna bet that you do. Let me do the rewind of your experiences with women and it will probably surprise you.

1. When you asked us questions that requires yes as an answer, we say yes but sometimes we didn't mean it just not to hurt your feelings. And when we do mean it, and it hurts, we only want to help and make the pain more bearable. We cared about you. It just that you are so blind and you couldn't see it for you only think about your damn ego.
2. We do not like attention. We only wanna feel that we are important to someone and I dont know why it is so damn hard for you to make us feel that way.
3. When we say we like you, I know it is a lot different with your reasons why you like us back. Our like is as almost equal to love and yours isn't.
4. We don't wanna hear the word "I Love You" coming from your mouth only because it is what could make us happy. Yeah it would but we would be happier if you will say it because that is what your heart says and that is what you really feel.
5. We are friendly. We could be friends with as many men as we want but that doesn't mean that we are a flirt. When you accused us as flirt. It damn hurts and you didn't know how bad the hurt could reach us. It bothers us even we say it is okay. Just to rest the case. Who would want to receive an award of being one?
6. When we joke around and we go with the flow like that of your green jokes, that doesn't mean that we only WANT you. Most of the times we just needed to laugh and we only want to break the wall.
7. All women need respect regardless of our religion.
8. We misses you more than you misses us and more than you know.
9. Communication is important to us. The farthest you are, the more important it is. So don't be bothered for the persistence that we keep on showing even if it maddens you more than you like it.
10. With #9, your contact number matters more than your email add. Hearing your voice matters more than those typed letters on emails and IMs. Your voice assured us that you are still there and is holding on tight.
11. Promises isn't just a word for us. Broken promises tore our hearts into tiny lil pieces and sometimes into ashes.
12. We worry too much not because we just wanna make sure that everything is doing good, fine and that you are safe and alright.
13. We love to hear some of your whereabouts because knowing that is like also being there with you.
14. We are not possessive. We just wanna be a part of you and not to own you.
15. Remembering the important event in our lives like our birthdays is the most important gift that we could ever received. And your presence (too) isnt too much to ask (I think).
16. When we find time more than you do, it means that we are into you. We too have our own busy days/times and we make sure we really find time.
17. We are more patient than you are and ours is not just how long we could wait but our attitude while waiting is kinda different from yours.
18. When we found out about the other, we cry a lot. Sometimes, Iniisip plang, ang sakit sakit na.
19. We understand you and you just didnt get it.
20. There is one thing that fears us(me) most is knowing that you love the other woman (her) more than you love (us)me.

There you go... I know there are more to come.... and feel free to add and post any comment or violent reaction.. anything will be highly appreciated and accepted... GOOD DAY! =)